Big Boy

{You were hoping this post was going to be about Frisch’s, weren’t you? Mmmm… Frisch’s…}

Sammy has decided in the last week or so that he is a big boy. He doesn’t even want to hear the other “b” word.

“I not a baby, Mama. I a big boy.”

For the longest time, I’ve asked him whose baby he is (and, frustratingly, most of the time he replied “Daddy’s baby!”), but now he won’t even play along.

He’s even made me change the words to the lullaby we sing at night. “Rock a big boy” just doesn’t quite have the same ring to it.

He is a big boy. He’s independent (and opinionated, omg. NO IDEA where he gets that one from. *ahem*). He’s potty trained. He’s busy. He is constantly playing something – the first thing he said to me yesterday morning was “Take off my jammies. I can’t play baseball in my jammies,” and at the end of the day, he didn’t want to go to bed, he wanted to play more “putball.”

But then there are moments like this morning, after I’d brought him to our bed hoping for a few more minutes of sleep. I looked at his face just inches from mine. He laid there sleeping so peacefully, sucking his thumb and clutching his beloved teddy bear, and I could hardly stand the sweetness. So innocent, so vulnerable.

He is a big boy. But he’s still so little.

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Top Ten Tuesday: Yard Sale Tips

Yard Sale Today!

Last weekend I had the misfortune of having a garage sale. Prior to the sale, I did my usual and googled “yard sale tips” to see what I could come up with. I wanted to make my sale as successful as possible! I came up with some and I asked for more tips on our FB page, and as always, our readers came through, so I thought I’d share what I learned here.

So here we go, my top ten yard sale tips.

1) Hang clothes up. Yes, it is a pain in the butt to put clothes on hangers, but it is worth it – it makes it so much easier for the buyers to look through everything. I scavenged hangers from all of our closets, begged some off of my grandma and my sister, and bought some from the dollar store. I still didn’t have enough, so I didn’t hang the things I was marking 2/$1. I put those in a bin, and later in the day spread out on a sheet, and even though they were priced lower, they didn’t sell as well as the hanging things did.

2) Color code. I got this idea from my grandma, and while I originally had visions of pricing everything individually, I quickly realized that color coding was a good plan. I bought garage sale stickers that were in three colors, and I made signs that indicated which color meant $1, $2 & $3. Much faster! It was confusing to a few people, but most people were able to figure it out. For the few things I had that I priced higher, I just wrote the amount on the sticker.

3) Price things right. Celia from Deals for Dayton gives this advice, “Price stuff for what you would pay for it. Try to let go of emotional attachment, and forget how much you paid for it.” Those last two things were tough for me, but for the most part I think I priced things fairly.

4) Take what they’ll give. Tons and tons of people said “Will you take…??” and every single time my answer was “Yes.” I got $5 less for my highchair than I had hoped, but it was still more than I would have gotten for it had it ended up in the Goodwill pile at the end of the day.

5) Your trash could be their treasure. Here’s reader Julie Stevenson’s advice, “Put out anything and everything you’re thinking about getting rid of. It can always go to Goodwill or the trash after yard sale day. I remember one sale – stuff I thought would sell didn’t and instead people bought ALL these old sets of bed sheets and towels. I couldn’t believe it. This morning my box of ‘Everything’s 50 cents’ Crap, was the biggest hit. I didn’t label it ‘Crap,’ except in my mind.” My co-workers gave me similar advice before my sale when I mentioned I had a pile of Sammy clothes that were stained with spit-up that I wasn’t going to put out. They were right – I put everything out, and the spit-uppy stuff sold while clothes with the flippin’ tags on them still reside in my garage.

6) Bundle items together. A tip I came across (somewhere… I would give credit if I could remember where I read it) said not to mark anything for less than $1. If you don’t think it’s worth $1, bundle it with other stuff. I tried this with some clothes, like I mentioned above, and did 2/$1. I had a giant box of Onesies that I put 3/$1 (although would you believe not ONE of them sold?). It makes people think they’re getting a deal, and it lessens the amount of dimes and quarters you have to deal with.

7) Try an “everything you can fit in a bag” sale. Readers Jen Berning and Katie Peterson both shared this tip – the last hour or so of the sale, they let buyers fill plastic grocery bags with whatever was left… for $1. I can see this being a great way to move items! Stores do this from time to time, why not try it at a garage sale?

8 ) Have a pre-sale. I invited Jenny, my sister and my bff – all people with kids younger than mine – to a pre-sale a few days ahead of time. They got pretty good deals – everything was 100% off. I wanted to pass things along to them, and this way the could come take what they needed and leave what they didn’t want. It made me feel good to see some of my favorite baby outfits go to loving homes!

9) Reconsider your bright idea of having a yard sale at all. This is the tip I wish I’d come across. Actually, I’m sure I’d heard a zillion times that having a yard sale wasn’t worth the work, but I didn’t believe it, and I’m sure you won’t either. But let me just say – preparing for this sale was a ton of work. I spent most of the previous weekend and every evening that week getting ready and even took half a day of vacation to prep. I was stressed. I had nightmares about this garage sale, people. That, combined with the actual time invested the day of the sale (12 hours, not that I was counting), made the $284 I had at the end of the day seem kind of disappointing. I was so tired and we had so much stuff left at the end of the day, that I told Andy I felt completely defeated.

That said…

10) Keep your eye on the prize – getting rid of the crap taking up space in your house. My number 1 goal for my yard sale was to start decluttering, and it really did help. I remember looking around our driveway during the sale and thinking “HOW did that all fit in our house???” It was astounding how much stuff we had that we didn’t need, and that I really didn’t care about. So, after the sale was over, we stuffed our two cars full (we left just barely enough room to stick the kids in) and took it all to Goodwill. Well, everything but the baby clothes and my set of Pfaltzgraff dishes (anyone want them? I’ll cut you a deal.). I’m going to try to pass the clothes onto friends who could use them, which I feel better about anyway. I’ve been the recipient of hand-me-downs from generous friends, and I know how helpful it is and how much it means. And I just couldn’t box them all up to donate, it made me too sad! (We circle back to tip one… get over the emotional attachment!)

So that’s what I learned by having a yard sale this weekend… what tips do you all have to share?

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Emily’s Kitchen Reveal!

I am very, very excited to be posting pictures of my kitchen this morning! I am absolutely thrilled with the end product… I think you’ll see why!

To refresh your memory, here’s what they were working with:
Granite Transformations worked their magic!

Take a look…

Isn’t it lovely?? In addition to making the cabinets and counter tops look so much more appealing, the people at Granite Transformations made some other functional changes that will really make a difference.

First of all, the sink.

I love this sink and faucet from Blanco – the sink is so deep that it can hold a lot more dirty dishes there’s a lot less mess when I rinse the dishes, and I really like the 80/20 split of the basins. I also love the faucet. It turns on so easily, and I love how it turns from a steady stream to a sprayer with a touch of a button.

They also helped make my fabulous Frigidaire microwave and range fit better into my kitchen.

The way the cabinets were before, the microwave practically sat on top of the stove. They built new, shorter cabinets above the microwave for me so that the microwave is up where it should be.

The pantry:

We had two doors on the pantry that opened up from the middle, like shutters (know what I mean?), and they replaced those with a more modern-looking style that only has one door.

They shortened our island:

Before, the island part of the counter jutted out in sort of a weird shape. While it added a bit more counter space, it made it impossible to walk between the counter and the kitchen table if someone was sitting there. I often walked out the other side of the kitchen, through the living room and dining room back into the kitchen just to get to Sam’s seat. The way they reconfigured the island adds a lot more space to our eating area, and I love how the clean, straight lines make it look.

Finally, they added hardware.

Our old cabinets didn’t have any hardware at all, which gave them a really dated look. I think the brushed silver hardware adds a lot to the cabinets and drawers!

So whaddya think??

I love it, as do Andy and the kids. The white cabinets brighten up the kitchen so much – it looks like a completely different place. I also love how the white is balanced by the dark brown counter tops. After we picked out our colors and everything, I got nervous that we hadn’t made good decisions. I don’t know why I was nervous, but I just was! Once they got started, though, I knew we had made the right decision, and once I saw it complete… I was in love.

The entire procedure took exactly five days. In five days, we had new cabinets, counter tops and a new sink. The GT process of overlaying existing structures made a huge difference in the time it took to complete the project, which was great because even though I do not love to cook, having a non-functioning kitchen makes life difficult. Five days was very doable – five months would have been tough!

I really cannot stress enough what a great experience this was. During the process, we had at least six different GT people from the Dayton branch in our house doing one thing or another, and each and every one of them was incredibly nice, friendly, and knowledgeable. We absolutely felt like we were in great hands throughout the process.

Thank you, thank you, thank you to Granite Transformations for inviting Jenny and me to be “Trendsetter Bloggers.” You absolutely transformed our houses.

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