You Gotta Know When to Hold ‘Em, Know When to Fold ‘Em


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It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve posted about how I’m feeling. (Quick recap: birth control pills made me crazy and depressed.) The answer is complicated. I stopped taking the first pill I was on and after a few days I started to feel somewhat like my old self. I even taught a coupon class one night and it was really fun. I started taking a new pill – the one I was on five plus years ago before I had Joshua. For a few days I felt ok, mostly back to normal, but after about a week, I started feeling sick again. The nausea and headaches started, and along came lack of appetite and being unable to eat certain things. It really did feel like I was about eight or nine weeks pregnant! (I am not, I promise you.) Then Wednesday in the late afternoon, it started happening again. The depression covered me like a blanket made of steel. I couldn’t get out from under it, no matter how hard I tried to push it aside. I sobbed while I made my kids peanut butter sandwiches for dinner, and after my husband got home, went up to our bedroom to be alone.

And there alone in my bed I made a decision. I just cannot take the pill anymore. I can’t even think about going back to that dark place I was in. Maybe I can try again in a few months, but right now I need to be able to get back to me. I will just deal with my crazy hormones without adding any in to make them crazier. I just want to feel normal again, and not be afraid of what tomorrow is going to hold because of some medication I am taking. Because after how bad I felt Wednesday night, I just can’t do that to myself anymore. It’s not worth it.

So, there ya go. I give. I am crying “uncle”. I just hope I can put myself back right. It may require me going to CVS and buying six 12-packs of Mountain Dew, but I’m prepared to make the sacrifice if I have to.

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Guest Post: Baby-Proofing Your Home

Today we are bringing you a guest post from Suzanne, one of the experts at CSNbaby.com.

Tips for Baby-Proofing Your Home

Day in and day out we try our hardest to make our home safe and comfortable for our family. While installing an alarm system or putting a scary guard dog out in your front lawn may ward off danger from the outside, the scarier situations lie inside our house. Babies are explorative and once you couple that type of personality with their tiny size, they can get can pretty much anywhere – which is why it’s important to highlight some general ways in which we can properly baby-proof our home.

Despite the fact that your baby’s crib is where they rest peacefully, this area of the nursery can be one of the most dangerous areas for your child if it hasn’t been properly assembled. As much as we think it’s a good idea to accept hand-me-down baby furniture to save on money, its best not to use antique furniture that doesn’t meet the crib manufacturing standards in cribs built in 1992 or later. Also, used cribs can be broken or missing small parts that could critically affect the overall construction. Be sure that the headboard or footboard doesn’t include decorative cutouts that your baby can get tangled in or tall corner posts that children can grab hold of and crawl on.

When you’re arranging the floor plan of your baby’s nursery, place cribs, changing tables, and rockers away from hanging drapery and blind cords to prevent entanglement or dissembled window treatments. The inner cords of blinds also pose a risk so simply removing the hanging cords is not enough. Since the nursery is a convenient place to store toys and stuffed animals, a wooden toy box makes organization a snap. With that in mind, avoid using storage units that include a heavy, hinged lid that can create a dangerous trap for young children. Mount bookshelves to the wall to prevent the structure from tipping over if tampered with and place a TV within a tall cabinet or on top of a high roll-out shelf.

If there is a specific section you would like to keep little ones out of, adjustable baby gates installed between kitchen islands or cabinets are an easy solution as long as you don’t mind hopping over them every now and then. These are absolutely crucial for the top and bottom of staircases in any part of the home that your child has access to.

If you’ve ever been around children in the kitchen, you’d understand how important it is to baby-proof this area of the home. Whether you’re making a quick snack or a gourmet family meal, young kids always want to see what’s happening on the counters, what’s inside the fridge, and what sounds each pot and pan can make. The first thing to check for is low sharp edges or corners that toddlers can reach or bump up against. Installing safety locks on all cabinets, pantries, and liquor cabinets that contain harmful cleaning products, food, or small objects will keep your child safe during their exploration. It’s best to move dangerous products to the top shelves to ensure that babies have no chance of getting their little hands on them. Also, a dishwasher full of clean or dirty utensils is tempting to a child – make sure to keep your dishwasher door closed and fastened tightly anytime you aren’t loading or unloading it so your child doesn’t have access to sharp forks and knives.

In all areas of the house, make sure low electrical outlets are covered. Once your child reaches a toddler age where they can climb, the dining room or kitchen table will no longer be a safe place to store dangerous items like scissors or breakables like your favorite flower vase.

What are some of your favorite baby-proofing tips and hacks? Is there anything you learned the hard way?

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It’s a blizzard!

Ok it’s probably not really a blizzard, but it might as well be! Here in southwestern Ohio, we’ve been hit hard with winter weather in the next couple of days.

Yesterday morning, it didn’t seem too awful outside, and I knew today was going to be worse, so I decided to brave it and head into work. I have about a 40 minute commute… 40 minutes on narrow, curvy country roads that are not #1 priority for the county’s snow clearing teams. “Not priority” as in they might get to them by spring. So even though we didn’t have tons of snow, the roads I was on were pretty covered. I was doing just fine, though, until I started going down a little hill, and I totally lost control of the car.

I slammed on the brakes and did exactly the opposite of everything I should have done in that situation, and hit one of these head on:

Fortunately for me, the sign was enough to stop my car from going any further. Unfortunately for the sign, my car snapped it right in half.

I was able to get out of the ditch I landed in before any other cars came down over the hill. But I didn’t think twice about turning right around and heading home. No way was I going to work – that was enough excitement for me! I wasn’t hurt at all and my car was only damaged slightly (at least as far as I can tell. Futher evaluation by my favorite mechanic, Bobby Rapson, will be necessary), but it scared me to death! I was really shaky the rest of the way home. In the midst of my nervousness, though, I did lament the fact that I didn’t have a camera with me so I could post a picture of the sign I took out! You might be a blogger if

But actually, our excitement for the day wasn’t quite over – when I got home, the garage door wouldn’t close. It would go down about 2 inches and go right back up. So after trying every fix I could find on Google (and everything some very kind Twitters suggested!), we called the repair man – the same one we had to have put new springs on our door a couple months ago – and he came out and put a brand new opener on. To the tune of $550.

So between the garage door and the car, we had a very expensive day.

Overnight last night, we got about eight hours of freezing rain to add to the mix, and this morning none of us are going anywhere. Andy and Kate had snow days, of course, and unbelievably I did too (which is unprecedented, I believe). So, we’ve already feasted on chocolate donuts, and pretty soon Kate and I are going out to build a snowman. I can’t wait to take Sammy out in the snow for a few minutes as well!

How are the rest of you Ohioans faring this morning? Anyone have a good story to tell?

Stay warm and safe!

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