Come Sale Away

My apologies to my mother, and anyone else whose eyes burn at the sight of the word “ass” but this picture made me crack up and I couldn’t RESIST!

Over the weekend, Bobby and I sorted and tagged stuff for the garage sale we are having later this week with families from our house church.  We are raising money to send the two teens in our house church to church camp this summer.  And also getting rid of all our old STUFF!  (Let me know locals, if you want the address!  Come buy my old crap gently used stuff!)

As we were going through aforementioned STUFF, I was really awed by how much of it we have.  So. much. extra. stuff. we. don’t. use.  I mean it’s pretty safe to say we used most of it at one time, but jeepers, why do we hold on to stuff for so long?

I think it’s just laziness on my part, lack of time to deal with the proper redistribution of those items.  I mean if it weren’t for this sale, they’d probably sit in my closets and basement for another couple of years.

But I am actually really excited to be freeing up some space and getting rid of some STUFF.  I hope my “trash” can become someone else’s “treasure”.  I can’t wait until the end of the week!  I know once it is done and we put our house back together, I am going to feel…lighter.

So, it’s a rainy Monday, and truth be told, we didn’t get nearly as much done this weekend as we wanted to.  It’s back upstairs for me to conquer the deep abyss that is Joshua’s closet.  I’m skeeered!  If you don’t hear from me by noon, you might want to call 911.  Maybe I’d better take the iPod touch up with me so I can twitter for help if I get trapped!

Let the cleansing begin!

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Rite Where They Want Me

This week marked a new milestone on my path to Drugstore Diva-hood: Rite Aid came out with a loyalty card.  Their wellness + program is sort of  (but not really) like CVS’ ExtraCare program.  And since I am a faithful user of Rite Aid’s Single Check Rebates, they sent me one a couple of days before the program became effective (this past Sunday, 4/18) so I would be ALL READY to hit the store with my wellness + card!  And they even emailed me some special wellness + coupons to use WHEEEEEEE!!

Sunday was a busy day, so I had to wait until Monday morning to hit Rite Aid.  Here’s what I got:

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U by Kotex tampons $3.49

2 GE lightbulbs $3 each

Huggies $8.99

Tugaboos (Rite Aid brand) diapers $6.99

total = $25.47

Coupons: $5/$25 wellness + coupon from my email

$1 off U by Kotex manu q

$1 off Kotex Rite Aid video values coupon (from last month I think. I’ve been saving it!)

Two $1 off GE light bulb printables

$3 off Huggies printable

$2 off Huggies Rite Aid video values coupon (also been saving this one)

total = $11.47 and I will get back $9.49 in rebates!  $3.49 for Kotex, $4 for the light bulbs, and $2 for the Tugaboos. WOOHOO!

Best of all? Most of this stuff wasn’t even for my family.  Thanks to coupons & rebates, I can afford to be generous!

*And then* BONUS because I used my wellness + card, the register printed me out some coupons on my receipt!  Yaaaaay!  With wellness+, Video Values, and the Single Check Rebate program, Rite Aid is really becoming nearer and dearer to my heart!

Woohoo!!

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History Lessons

I love to read.  I’m not sure I’ve talked much about my reading habit on this here blog, but I am pretty much always reading something.  I love it all: novels, biography, historical fiction, and non-fiction.  I’ve loved reading since I was a child, and I hope my kids come to love it as much as I do.

Recently I’ve been reading a lot of historical non-fiction.  Despite my poking fun at Emily for her desire to further her education, I’ve been furthering my education unofficially with history books for years.  I love learning about the past, and I love switching from subject to subject.  I love thinking of something I’d like to know more about, looking it up on my library’s online site, and reserving a couple of books on the topic.  If I were going to go to graduate school just for funzies, I’d totally get a degree in history.  Obviously, just for pleasure, and not for practical reasons.

So.  I thought I’d share with you some of what I’ve been reading lately.

Recently I re-read a book my mom had loaned me a couple of years ago called Slaves in the Family. It was written about a dozen years ago by Edward Ball, a white man whose family had been one of the largest slaveholders in the South, rice planters from the South Carolina low country.  By the time he was born, that was all long gone, but as an adult he set out to learn about what had happened to the descendants of his family’s slaves.  It was a fascinating read!  I learned a lot from it, and was happy to learn that Ball had written another book, about the family of an African-American woman he had might while researching Slaves in the Family, who was a very distant cousin of his.

It’s called The Sweet Hell Inside and it’s the story of a mixed-race family, the Harlestons, who lived in Charleston, South Carolina in the decades following slavery’s end as part of a small group of the city’s “colored elite”.

They were undertakers, and made their fortune because no white undertakers would handle the remains of black citizens.  The Harlestons had more money than many whites but still struggled mightily against the racist laws in place at the time.  They were wealthy, cultured, well-educated, and – forced to live as second-class citizens outside of their own neighborhood.  Yet, it should be noted, that they were light-skinned and snubbed other African-Americans with darker skin, thus propelling discrimination instead of ameliorating it.  Ball’s narrative, with recollections from a Harleston family member Edwina Harleston Whitlock, is a really fascinating and heartbreaking read.

After reading Ball’s two books, I decided I wanted to read more about how slavery and race relations affected a specific family, so I reserved and read Annette Gordon Reed’s Pulitzer-Prize winning The Hemingses of Monticello, about the family enslaved by Thomas Jefferson (though they came to him through his marriage to Martha Wayles, having belonged to her father.  He had plenty of slaves of his own before he married, however.)

The book details the lives of many members of the Hemings family and the social context in which they carried out those lives.  The most famous Hemings is Sally, who was Jefferson’s wife’s half-sister (her father’s child with one of his slaves) and whom Jefferson took as a “concubine” (if you will) after his wife’s death (even though she was about the age of his own eldest daughter.)  He and Hemings had seven children together, four of whom survived infancy.  Three of those four left Monticello to “pass as white” – leaving slavery with Jefferson’s blessing to live in the white world (Sally Hemings was also mixed-race, and her children with Jefferson, being only 1/8 “black” were “white enough” to pass somewhere far away from home.)

Hemingses was dry in parts but so, so thorough and really, truly heartbreaking.  The lives of the Hemings men – Sally Hemings’ brothers and nephews were very fascinating.  Jefferson had many of them trained as artisans and allowed them to work on their own and keep their earnings when he himself was traveling away from Monticello – so long as they would hop to it as soon as he called for them.  To this end, he allowed them to get tastes of freedom many times – but it was always temporary.

So there’s a brief summary of what I’ve  been learning lately.  Next up, I’ve decided to conquer World War 2 Germany.  What books have you had your noses buried in?

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